Stuck in Limbo: Clean break-up or are you just now more confused ??

Ever been dumped or did the dumping and the situation was even more fuzzy then a t.v. that never met cable ? Why is that we can't seem to ever have a clean break without the physical fighting or cursing each other out ? Why can't people be direct or clear ? How about saying, "i dont love you anymore, we're through" ? Not so tough now, is it ? Me personally have been on both ends of the Limbo stick and have came out a situaiton more confused then I entered it. Ex #1: Texted a guy about his flaws & why i could never be with him and it would never work. He in returns texts back: "im sorry you feel that way but if you want this to work then you have to be willing and able." Ummmm im sorry but did u or didnt you read my last text ? Yep, buddy that was for you ! Oh well...now were both confused. Blah !