Commitment = Death

Asking a guy to be committed and exclusive is like asking them to cut off one of their balls ! I understand the reason for this (i think). Let me take a stab at it: We're young and rebellious at this age (18-24) this is the time to build your career, finish school and figure out what you REALLY want. With all this taken into consideration is it ok to string along a potential future partner ? Knowing that it'll end like a middle school relationship. Hmmmm good question...maybe to good. Is asking for a little commitment from your spouse, with out marriage too much ? Are should you expect to be played and toyed with for the time being because of our age ? Me, personally don't mind being on either side of the fence as long as there is an understanding about what type of relationship it is. Are you in a monogamous relationship or open ? Or do you even know ?